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Emotional Dilemmas Linked to Post-Holiday Family Gatherings

Posted on 5th Jan 2011 @ 6:54 PM

Something no one really wants to admit even to a best friend those recent holiday “visits” or even just viewing photos of family members created one bad memory. These get-to-gethers for many people can prompt brain activity that affects how you feel about them, your friends, and even yourself, a recent study suggests. In fact, two movies, “Dan in Real Life” or, even “The Fockers” would qualify as two great examples, looking on the humorous side of course.

The study is the first to compare brain activity associated with seeing relatives with that linked to seeing friends and strangers. It suggests our feelings about biological relatives are at least somewhat primal.

The findings may help explain everything from why our family can get on our nerves to why people who look like us can spark immediate feelings of trust. For the study, the researchers performed MRI brain scans on test subjects viewing images of biological relatives, friends, strangers, themselves and various morphed images.

The scientists found that relatives and self-look-a-likes are processed through a self-referential part of the brain. Friends and strangers who look nothing like the viewer, on the other hand, light up entirely different areas of the brain; those linked to making important and risky decisions with respect to the self.

The findings are published in the latest issue of the journal Neuropsychologia.

Since relatives are processed through areas of the brain linked to self-reference, the study could also help to explain why relatives cause us to take things personally. While we may tolerate a friend's loud laughter or snoring, for example, we may have less patience with a relative because we judge them similarly to how we judge ourselves.

"This research is a wonderful example of the fruitfulness of conducting cognitive neuroscience informed by evolutionary theory," said Todd Shackelford, a professor of psychology at Florida Atlantic University.

"I am hopeful that other researchers in the cognitive neurosciences will follow the lead and take full advantage of the perspective on the design of the structure of the mind," he told Discovery News.

It's likely, he explained, that a face we perceive as "friendly" is one that looks more like us. But how we later feel about that person could be tied to how we feel about ourselves, perhaps explaining the prevalence of arguments during family reunions and holiday gatherings.

It’s about time “we now have scientific proof” that these feelings are nothing but real, yet, without any guilt involved!

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